Ibu Bapa Perlu Tahu! Pentingnya Menanam 'Self-Control' Anak Bermula Dari Kecil
Kazian Mintania planted "Self-Control" on newborn children from Kesil
In 1970, psychology professor Walter Michel conducted a unique experiment on 500 children between the ages of four and five. The test was called the "marshmallow test" and was originally akamikas for the children's equivalent of manahan nakhginan (delayed gratification).
The children in this experiment sit in an empty booth and offer marshmallows placed on a mesa. These children are given more pelicans to continue eating the same marshmallows or to abstain from eating for 15 minutes.
As a result of this experiment, Michelle found some marshmallows. Cementra Konak-Kanak Line, which was hot for 15 minutes, used Mara Technik to store the naginan for the first marshmallow. Ginger Young Books Eyes, Ginger Young Bars, Ginger Young Kicks Meza, Barmein with Clothing and Ginger Also Young Barmein Listens to Marshmallows It's like a game.
Approximately 50 years after the initial exams, Michel and his group re-tipped these "marshmallow-resistant" brethren and saw their yards sprawl a year after the exams. They found that the group of children who were able to abstain from eating the first marshmallow had good learning outcomes, good physical health (part of BMI) (elep up to age 30).
What can we protect?
Don't misunderstand.
The conclusion of this study draws attention to the guidance provided by parents in the study of priorities in children's education. Michel argues that children who are able to contact their own desires contact internal limitations (craving, lust, desire) to stay with the candy they came from ("don't eat those marshmallows"). "Self-control" is a delayed skill for those in the deep phase of life, especially young adults.
Unjuran Kepa is actually Hari
Teenagers under the influence of naughty friends, smoking and vaping, porn addicts, discussions about sexual symptoms and drugs are some examples of situations where this “self-control” does not work – or maybe not!
It's not that kids who fail the marshmallow test will always fail in life. But the conclusion, which is more practical, is that if the children are not brought up in piety, the Mujahideen refrain from this desire and "self-control" from the very beginning, they will be reluctant to commit suicide in the era of the Srimans. It means it's really important.
Memories before "Taste of Marshmallow"
In fact, the concept of self-control is not foreign to the Islamic education of children. Al-Quran skillfully recorded Luqman's order to Sonia:
(Lukman Berita): O my son, alohet zika is (something parbutan) to the west of the mustard seed, and is in a stone, or in the sky, or in the earth, no Allah will return it (answer it). Indeed, Allah is Merciful, Wise." (Lukman: 16)
Long before Michel and his friends discussed "self-control," Islam, using its scientific ink, outlined Namita's magical ingredients for self-control in parenting.
Imam al-Ghazali outlined five facts that can be related to the development of morality, which should be on the agenda of every family when raising their children.
- tazkiyya an-nafs or purification of the soul;
- Mujahid or fight against lust;
- Follow best practice;
- To make those who are, brothers with bad morals;
- Murakabatullah or self-denial to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
All these elements of finca define people who are able not only to endure the “marshmallow” age, no matter what trials they face.
As a reminder to me and all parents, it's not like dolphins represent the best for kids in every field - reading, writing, speaking, playing, whatever. But don't forget about the bigger agenda - put "restraint" on the child's psyche. Starting today, so that you can focus on exam results and 20, 30 years from now, God willing.
Number : Dr. Rozanizam Zakaria
Parents need to know! IMPORTANTIA planted Self Control as the New Child of Kesilm.
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